7 Wonderful Things That Happen When You Get Out Of A Toxic Relationship

Falling in and out of love is no game. It's very rarely that we meet a person who touches our soul and makes such a place in our lives that we can't even imagine a future without them.

However, it also happens that the same person we love gives us hell. Yes, it isn't so easy to fall in and out of love but it is also important to know exactly when to let go and the simple answer to that is when it starts hurting you.

But let's be honest, getting out an abusive relationship isn't all that easy. However, reading all these positive things that happen once you walk away from your abusive partner may just encourage you to do it:

1. An abusive relationship can often end up with you being made to feel horrible about your own existence. However, leaving it will help you love yourself and appreciate your own person.

2. Dating someone toxic often involves a lot emotional energy. It is easy to get distracted from yourself and lose yourself completely to the relationship. However, once it ends, you can take up that hobby you've been ignoring or that job in another city. You can finally start enjoying life your way and do things that give you pure, unadulterated happiness.

3. After having gone through a hurtful relationship, you'll be more cautious. Moreover, you'll be able to easily identify the red flags and walk away from people at the right time instead of emotionally investing in them.

4. You can finally have control over your own life. Abusive relationships are characterized by too many unhealthy boundaries regarding what you can and cannot do. It could range from the clothes you wear to the profession you choose. However, these unreasonable boundaries disappear the moment you step out of an abusive relationship and you're fully in control of the way you want to live life.

5. You now find the time to reconnect with friends you've been ignoring because all your energy went into your relationship. You'll discover that your real friends have been waiting for you to get out of it and will do anything to help you with the healing process.

6.  Once you walk away from your abusive relationship, you'll feel lighter and in a good way. You won't be constantly paranoid or insecure. You wouldn't be fighting everyday. And when you'll feel this lightness, know that you've made the right decision.

7. The next person you'll date will see the best version of you. By the time you end up falling in love again, you would have healed yourself and with double the effort which means that you're going to be at your best.